coffeespoons comments on Call for Anonymous Narratives by LW Women and Question Proposals (AMA) - Less Wrong

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Comment author: coffeespoons 11 September 2012 04:46:27PM *  0 points [-]

Mostly I'd like to have a solution that doesn't involve me having to wear uncomfortable and unflattering clothes :)!

Comment author: shminux 11 September 2012 05:12:53PM *  2 points [-]

doesn't involve me having to wear uncomfortable and unflattering clothes

Comfortable is easy, comfortable but flattering is harder, comfortable, flattering but not sexy is harder still. Also, I suspect that when women say "comfortable", they often mean something other than what straight guys mean by the same term. For example, many women would say that wearing basic sweats and a hoodie in public is uncomfortable.

Comment author: TimS 11 September 2012 05:17:32PM 2 points [-]

Um, high heels?

Comment author: coffeespoons 11 September 2012 08:24:07PM 1 point [-]

Sorry, I meant "clothes that I feel uncomfortable in," not "clothes that are physically uncomfortable." I would feel uncomfortable/less confident in sweats and a hoodie. I appreciate it was the wrong choice of words.