DaFranker comments on Rationality Quotes November 2012 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Peterdjones 14 November 2012 08:17:24PM *  0 points [-]

Sex is sacred.

That's the preaching-to-the-converted version. When preaching to the unconverted, more pragmatic arguments tend to be brought forward

but I can't see why it could affect sex,

Unwanted pregnancy would have been as disastrous as disease in the econiomcally constrained socieites of our ancestors. .

(Now if someone could explain to me why so many people find gay kisses gross...)

Or interacial kisses? Depends where y'all come from, I figure. Old chap.

Short answer: conditioning.

Comment author: DaFranker 14 November 2012 08:44:28PM 0 points [-]

Short answer: conditioning.

I stand by this answer.

I used to find gay man-man kissing (or any form of intimate touching between males, really) very gross despite a very strong conscious understanding and notion that it was just as "right" for them as between a man and a woman.

Then, as I noticed and saw more of it, it got normal.

Now I don't find any of it the least bit gross or off-putting anymore, except in rare cases that evoke specific memories.

The just-so hindsight explanation that makes the most sense is that I believed-by-default everything I was told as a child about such things being "bad", "gross" and "disgusting" or even outright "evil" by my peers. However, that's only the slightly-more-likely out of many possible explanations, and I don't have real data.