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Comment author: sam0345 13 November 2012 01:42:12AM *  -1 points [-]

Given that, why should we return to the world where the father had great influence rather than abandon all the memes and ideas that remain that rely on that power disparity?

Because this egalitarian family does not seem to be working, or, indeed, even existing. The law proclaims equality, but instead of getting equality, gets family breakdown.

Find me a family where they equally share picking up the socks, and you will find a family where they do not share the main bed.

Egalitarian families suffer absolutely total dysfunction. Georgian era right, Victoria era wrong.

Comment author: [deleted] 13 November 2012 09:34:48AM *  4 points [-]

Why did this get down voted? The empirical evidence seems to be on his side when looking at most indicator of egalitarian norms. Like say sharing housework equally.

Comment author: Multiheaded 13 November 2012 01:19:17PM 1 point [-]

Because, as someone had already told you once when people got angry at your defense of Roissy's writing, sometimes the tone does tell us more than the denotation! I didn't downvote him originally, but now I'm going to. I'm not some tolerant liberal guy, and I'm absolutely not going to tolerate this.

Comment author: [deleted] 13 November 2012 10:52:37PM *  3 points [-]

I don't think the tone of the particular comment is out of the normal LW range on other subjects but naturally its your call as much as mine.

Comment author: sam0345 14 November 2012 01:50:08AM 4 points [-]

as someone had already told you once when people got angry at your defense of Roissy's writing, sometimes the tone does tell us more than the denotation! ... Im absolutely not going to tolerate this.

How then could the same facts be stated in a way that has acceptable "tone"?

How could one state in a tone that meets your approval that the socially conservative family structure that was the ideal endorsed by authority from the New Testament to the Georgian era worked and was good for everyone, and the new progressive emancipated family structure started not working in the Victorian era, and has been working less and less for everyone as it has become more and more progressive?