Ah, okay, I've heard people use the term "agenty" with me before but didn't know what it meant (the context didn't help much and it only came at the point where s/he was cutting off communication).

The context was:

• "Silas, since you're [near X] at [time Y], can do you [task for me] at Y? No trouble if you can't."
• "[leaves silas a voicemail]: time Y has moved to inconvient time Z."
• "[my reply back with a voicemail]: I can't make that time, and it would be cheaper at this point anyway to do it youself."
• [still expects me to do task]
• [I get a call from someone else who was told I would do task.]
• [I attempt to do task to the extent I can anyway.]
• [I get condemned on the basis that "Silas, I thought you were agenty."]