Ah yeah successful should maybe have been accepted, or universal, or maybe claims should have been arguments. Thanks!

I'd also say: being downvoted by one person is not particularly strong evidence of anything; don't get upset about it.

My first attempt to clarify was downvoted too :(

the obvious diagnosis is that you and Argency disagree about what "feminism" means

... oh. It is a very vague word ... I figured they were just underestimating the coherence of opposing arguments, since it's easy to when the position in question is quite discredited so you don't encounter them... I'll try asking them what they meant, good idea.