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Comment author: roland 11 April 2013 02:26:41AM 2 points [-]

In general a PUA should always make a woman feel good, otherwise why should she choose to stay with him? Probably women suffer much more through awkward interactions, stalkers, etc...

For example, let's hypothetically imagine that women are more attracted to people who make them feel insecure

Making a woman feel insecure might work, so does a movie that makes people feel scared(ever enjoyed a good horror movie?). Should we blame a PUA if that works for him?

Beautiful women will have an edge when negotiating with a man, should we blame her for using this as a tactic?

I've decided to write my own post on the subject, feel free to take a look:

http://lesswrong.com/r/discussion/lw/h6l/pick_up_artistspuas_my_view/

Comment author: wedrifid 11 April 2013 04:14:17AM 7 points [-]

In general a PUA should always make a woman feel good, otherwise why should she choose to stay with him?

Human mating interests are not aligned perfectly with the happiness goals of the gene carriers in question. (It so happens that creating mostly positive affect in interactions is usually optimal, but this isn't entirely consistent and certainly isn't an inevitable first principle.)