Viliam_Bur comments on LW Women Submissions: On Misogyny - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Viliam_Bur 11 April 2013 01:56:17PM *  24 points [-]

If you are a guy and have a button you can legally press that makes the woman you're trying to woo fall in love with you, pressing that button would be ... bad?

The "good - bad" scale is not the same as "legal - illegal" scale, although in nice societies they correlate positively.

Pressing people's buttons to make them act against their long-term interests is bad and legal.

(Where "bad" means approximately: "I wouldn't trust given person to cooperate with me in Prisonners' Dilemma, so I would consider it rational to defect".)

Comment author: TheOtherDave 11 April 2013 03:23:24PM 6 points [-]

(Where "bad" means approximately: "I wouldn't trust given person to cooperate with me in Prisonners' Dilemma, so I would consider it rational to defect".)

Upvoted for this alone.

Comment author: Kawoomba 11 April 2013 02:30:57PM 0 points [-]

Steering a conversation such that the result is in your best interest - but not in the best interest of your conversation partner - is bad, even when both are consenting adults?

Comment author: fubarobfusco 11 April 2013 11:44:34PM 7 points [-]

If you care about both parties being consenting adults, you'll dislike it if one party tries to undermine the clarity of the other person's consent.