wedrifid comments on You can't signal to rubes - Less Wrong

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Comment author: wedrifid 03 January 2013 05:10:11PM *  0 points [-]

The more I think about this, the less sure I am that I understand the distinction you're trying to draw here between "attempting to mimic a recognized dominance signal" and "a signalling behavior". Can you expand?

  • "Dominance signal" corresponds to actions which indicate to others (be they lower in status, equals or those higher in status) that the signaler that they are in charge. Dominance is almost entirely mediated by signalling.
  • "Attempting to mimic" in the context introduced by ialdabaoth indicates that the motive of the behavior is "signal to a particular target audience of superiors that one is dominant over subordinates despite in fact not being dominant over subordinates".
  • The distinction is between on one hand any "attempting to mimic a recognized dominance signal" and on the other the set of all signalling behaviors that is any one of "not about dominance", "not motivated to deceive some class of observer" or "actually indicates or causes dominance within the relevant hierarchy".

If mimicry absolutely must be dragged in to describe an aspect of the scenario then it could be said that "Managers who are unnecesarily hostile to their subordinates are attempting to mimic a recognized signal of competent leadership" or something similar. It would still be wrong as a point of human psychology but at least it wouldn't be fundamentally muddled thinking about signalling, mimicry and dominance.

Comment author: DaFranker 03 January 2013 05:28:53PM *  1 point [-]

I'm not sure this follows. I have had managers who displayed unnecessary hostility towards me when in front of their own superiors, but had no proper dominance or control over me to speak of.

In one case, I held said manager in the palm of my hands and tolerated the hostility in light of the fact that his display of dominance to his superior increased said superiors' allotment of resources to our team, which in turn made my own life easier and overall more enjoyable even after factoring out the hostility itself.

(for context, I had an indirect veto power over that manager: I could credibly threaten to quit, since I wasn't dependent on the job and had a guarantee of having a new one secured for me within a week, while they stood to lose some productivity by having to hire and train a new employee up to my skill level - they had a lot more to lose than me and the costs of hiring and training stood to be far higher than the costs of adjusting for minor demands on my part)

On the other hand, I'm slightly more inclined than usual to believe I'm misinterpreting you, given my current state of mind and (lack of) awareness.

Comment author: wedrifid 03 January 2013 05:52:18PM *  1 point [-]

I'm not sure this follows.

Note that my own assertion was (with emphasis added):

That isn't true (or at least doesn't follow).

I am not claiming that it is not ever possible to mimic dominance displays in some context without actually having dominance. I am claiming that using behaviors that actually successfully dominate is not mimicking dominance. Said dominance may in turn be done for the purpose of mimicking something else.

Comment author: DaFranker 03 January 2013 06:00:20PM 0 points [-]

I am not claiming that it is not ever possible to mimic dominance displays in some context without actually having dominance. I am claiming that using behaviors that actually successfully dominate is not mimicking dominance. Said dominance may in turn be done for the purpose of mimicking something else.

Ah, thanks. Oops.

Comment author: ialdabaoth 04 January 2013 02:13:46AM 0 points [-]

"Attempting to mimic" in the context introduced by ialdabaoth indicates that the motive of the behavior is "signal to a particular target audience of superiors that one is dominant over subordinates despite in fact not being dominant over subordinates".

No, the motive of the behavior is "signal to a particular target audience of superiors that one is effective at leadership despite in fact not being effective at leadership. The specific signal that is interpreted as effective leadership happens to be dominance over subordinates, therefore someone who wishes to signal effective leadership will dominate their subordinates."

It's telling that our culture so intertwines the two (effective leadership and dominance over subordinates) that no one even remembers that the actual trait we're trying to signal is "effective leadership"; the mistake that everyone seems to keep making is that dominating subordinates is itself the desired trait.

Comment author: wedrifid 04 January 2013 02:30:00AM *  0 points [-]

No, the motive of the behavior is

Note that my replies were to the unedited version and would not make sense as reply to the current claim.

It's telling that our culture so intertwines the two (effective leadership and dominance over subordinates) that no one even remembers that the actual trait we're trying to signal is "effective leadership"; the mistake that everyone seems to keep making is that dominating subordinates is itself the desired trait.

I don't believe the premised claim that active attempts to signal effective leadership are the predominate motive or cause of dominance of subordinates.

Comment author: ialdabaoth 04 January 2013 06:52:57AM *  -2 points [-]

I don't believe the premised claim that active attempts to signal effective leadership are the predominate motive or cause of dominance of subordinates.

But it was the original premise of the quoted post that Patrick was objecting to, so whether we believe that premise or not is immaterial. This discussion is about whether the word "signaling" was used correctly in that post, not about whether that post was factually correct. A discussion about whether the predominate motive for dominating subordinates is to signal effective leadership would be interesting, but seems like a bit of a distraction when we're trying to have a discussion about semantics and word choice.

Comment author: ialdabaoth 04 January 2013 07:31:21AM 0 points [-]

I appear to be confused - I don't understand why the previous post was downvoted. What am I saying that is incorrect or inappropriate?

Comment author: TheOtherDave 04 January 2013 02:59:44PM 0 points [-]

I wouldn't worry about a single downvote or two.

That said, while I didn't downvote (or, indeed, previously read) the comment, I would say that discussions purely about semantics and word choice are rarely worth the energy to have.

Comment author: ialdabaoth 05 January 2013 06:38:48AM 0 points [-]

Well, now everything I've said over the past few days has been downvoted.

Am I not the right sort of person to be posting on lesswrong?

Comment author: Qiaochu_Yuan 05 January 2013 06:45:46AM 0 points [-]

It's generally a better idea to criticize actions rather than people: question your actions before you question yourself (the latter leads to a mindset which is more resistant to changing actions). But in any case, the most likely hypothesis, given that many of your posts have only one downvote, is that someone is serially downvoting you.

Comment author: [deleted] 05 January 2013 06:46:42AM -2 points [-]

You've done nothing wrong (that I've seen), either someone is misusing the downvote as a retaliation tactic or LW is just bad at voting (or both). I've been there. It clearly hasn't affected you over a long period of time, since your karma is in the positive hundreds (as opposed to mine, which hasn't hit the 20 shreshold). But to be sure, try to avoid dubious assertions/axioms (or if you have to use one, affix the phrase "according to my beliefs" or something similar).

Comment author: ialdabaoth 05 January 2013 07:12:54AM 0 points [-]

By my reasoning (or more accurately, by the reasoning of my inner Death Eater), if someone is serially downvoting me as a retaliation tactic, then that means I've done something wrong (or more accurately, that I'm BEING something wrong).

Comment author: [deleted] 05 January 2013 07:26:40AM *  -2 points [-]

No one post you've said (regardless of how bad it could've been) would ever justify downvoting everything in retaliation, because that's not what the downvote is meant to be used for. I can understand why you, as a rationalist, place doubt upon yourself by default, but there's no need to defend your (theoretical) aggressor. Well-kept gardens die by pacifism, some die by moderation.