juliawise comments on What are your rules of thumb? - Less Wrong

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Comment author: juliawise 17 February 2013 02:30:42AM *  6 points [-]

"Try to make it better." This is to counteract my tendency, when in conflict with someone, to default to the goal "Make myself seem right and make the other person feel bad." Which, if I stop and think about it, is never what I actually want.