Even the groups that are tolerant to crying will respond with a flurry of fussiness even when the person is saying "please ignore me, I'm okay." A lot of these things would be much easier if we could just cry or puke and count on everyone else to respond the way we tell them to respond.
Very much agreed, and that's a lot of what I strive for in my own behavior. I've found a few people pick up on it, too, which is always pleasing to see little ripples of change.
I'm not as smart as I like to think I am. Knowing that, I've gotten into a habit of trying to work out as many general principles as I can ahead of time, so that when I actually need to think of something, I've already done as much of the work as I can.
What are your most useful cached thoughts?
A few of the rules-of-thumb I've already pre-cached include:
That should be a reasonable but not overwhelming sample of the sorts of ideas I mean, and am hoping to evoke more of with this post.