How quickly you learn something depends on whether your brain thinks that this knowledge is to avoid something bad (slow learning) or to attain something good (fast learning).
Aversive learning is slower than appetitive learning? That's possible, but not what I would expect from my reading on anxiety and learned aversions, which can often be traced back to a single traumatic incident. Maybe this is just selection bias (EDIT: It was.), or the relative amount of badness is incomparable, but that seems like those results ought to get reconciled somehow.
The animal training book Don't Shoot the Dog states that reinforcement-oriented clicker training is substantially faster and more persistent than aversion-based alternatives. Even for cases where you're training an animal not to do something, the author recommends finding a way to make use of reinforcement-based training somehow... e.g. train a behavior incompatible with the one you want to discourage. "[Punishment is] everybody's favorite [method for getting rid of undesired behaviors], in spite of the fact that it almost never really works."
There are two confusing but potentially important papers in the Jan. 25 2013 Science on long-term memory (LTM) formation in fruit flies:
Pierre-Yves Placais & Thomas Preat. To favor survival under food shortage, the brain disables costly memory. 339:440-441.
Yukinori Hirano et al. Fasting launches CRTC to facilitate long-term memory formation in Drosophila. 339:443-446.
These papers categorize long-term memory formation along three axes.
The relationship between these is unclear, particularly as each of these three axes is claimed at various times to determine whether memory can be learned in a single training cycle (appetitive, fLTM, and/or ARM) or not (aversive, spLTM, and/or LTM). But these things appear to be likely, or at least to be reasonable hypotheses, if these pathways are conserved in humans:
I'd really appreciate it if somebody would do a literature review and a comparison of the pathways involved to those in humans, and summarize their findings.