You wrote:

On the other hand making equivalent behavioral signals that indicate that you are the kind of person who has sexual options and have the kind of personality that considers satisfying your preferences to be important and having the other person's instincts adjust to the implied incentives is basically just everyday social behavior.

I wrote:

To put a relationship under continual threat on an everyday basis

Doesn't look like a straw man to me, but have fun embracing the Banta.