Mqrius comments on Co-Working Collaboration to Combat Akrasia - Less Wrong

54 Post author: ShannonFriedman 09 March 2013 06:17PM

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Comment author: [deleted] 06 March 2013 08:06:24PM 3 points [-]

I'd even be ok with money changing hands. Or, more informally, buying food.

Comment author: Mqrius 07 March 2013 11:08:16AM 3 points [-]

I think money might complicate things: You might want to get paid more for stuff you don't find that interesting. With trading just time, it feels different. You'd just give the other person X hours of your time, and you get X hours back. It doesn't matter to you what you do in the X hours you gave away. Perhaps getting money for it also makes it seem like work, instead of a fun, social thing. Then again, maybe it's a distinction that's only in my head, so if you can make it work, sure, go for it!

Buying food indeed seems less formal.

Comment author: Viliam_Bur 07 March 2013 05:46:52PM 9 points [-]

Also, paying money to your friends is probably bad, psychologically. There is a "social mode" with family and friends, and a "business mode" when dealing with money. They use different rules. For example the business mode is based on principle that everything can be replaced and traded; but the family and friends are supposed to be special. Trying to calculate whether the X hours I gave to my friend really have the same value as the X hours my friend gave to me seems like a certain way to ruin our friendship.

(I am not sure how much this is culture-depended.)

Comment author: Zian 10 March 2013 04:58:48AM 4 points [-]

Dan Ariely's research found that paying money will destroy social relationships, giving stuff does a little damage, and just doing stuff for 'free' is best. So, if you're trying to keep the social bits, just go straight to 'free.'

Comment author: Mqrius 10 March 2013 09:25:34AM 2 points [-]

I believe this is the research you mention? Effort for payment: a tale of two markets

Comment author: Zian 11 May 2013 10:00:29PM 0 points [-]

Yes, it is.