Jay_Schweikert comments on Rationality Quotes April 2013 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Jay_Schweikert 04 April 2013 02:18:00PM *  35 points [-]

Jack Sparrow: [after Will draws his sword] Put it away, son. It's not worth you getting beat again.

Will Turner: You didn't beat me. You ignored the rules of engagement. In a fair fight, I'd kill you.

Jack Sparrow: Then that's not much incentive for me to fight fair, then, is it? [Jack turns the ship, hitting Will with the boom]

Jack Sparrow: Now as long as you're just hanging there, pay attention. The only rules that really matter are these: what a man can do and what a man can't do. For instance, you can accept that your father was a pirate and a good man or you can't. But pirate is in your blood, boy, so you'll have to square with that some day. And me, for example, I can let you drown, but I can't bring this ship into Tortuga all by me onesies, savvy? So, can you sail under the command of a pirate, or can you not?

--Pirates of the Caribbean

The pirate-specific stuff is a bit extraneous, but I've always thought this scene neatly captured the virtue of cold, calculating practicality. Not that "fairness" is never important to worry about, but when you're faced with a problem, do you care more about solving it, or arguing that your situation isn't fair? What can you do, and what can't you do? Reminds me of What do I want? What do I have? How can I best use the latter to get the former?

Comment author: TheOtherDave 04 April 2013 03:25:14PM 10 points [-]

That said, if I recognize that I'm in a group that values "fairness" as an abstract virtue, then arguing that my situation isn't fair is often a useful way of solving my problem by recruiting alliances.

Comment author: Zubon 08 April 2013 03:09:55AM 3 points [-]

If you're in a group where "that's not fair" is frequently a winning argument, you may already be in trouble.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 08 April 2013 02:31:40PM 7 points [-]

I am in many groups where, when choosing between two strategies A and B, fairness is one of the things we take into account. I'm not sure that's a problem.

Comment author: scav 08 April 2013 09:40:16AM 1 point [-]

If it's a frequently-occurring observation within the group then yes, there seems to be something wrong. Possibly because things are regularly proposed and acted on without considering fairness until someone has to point it out.

If it hardly ever has to be said, but when pointed out, it is often persuasive, you're probably OK.

Comment author: radical_negative_one 04 April 2013 04:11:04PM *  9 points [-]

The pirate-specific stuff is a bit extraneous

Jack Sparrow: The only rules that really matter are these: what a [person] can do and what a [person] can't do. For instance, you can accept that [different customs from yours are traditional and commonly accepted in the world] or you can't. But [this thing you dislike] is [an inevitable feature of your human existence], boy, so you'll have to square with that some day ... So, can you [ally with somebody you find distasteful], or can you not?

Comment author: FiftyTwo 24 April 2013 01:26:20PM 0 points [-]

Even more generally it can be taken as a paraphraasing of the Litany of Gendlin

Jack Sparrow: The only rules that really matter are these: what a [person] can do and what a [person] can't do. For instance, you can accept [reality] or you can't. But [reality] is [true whether or not you believe it], boy, so you'll have to square with that some day ... So, can you [accept it], or can you not?

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 05 April 2013 04:24:37AM 2 points [-]

Frankly this is precisely the kind of ruthless pragmatism that gives utilitarians such a horrible reputation.

Comment author: Desrtopa 05 April 2013 04:29:46AM 13 points [-]

Well, it certainly didn't stop Jack Sparrow from being a beloved character.

You can be ruthless and popular, if you're sufficiently charismatic about it.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 05 April 2013 04:33:42AM 16 points [-]

It also helps to be fictional, or at least sufficiently removed from the target audience that they perceive you in far mode.

Comment author: Desrtopa 05 April 2013 04:43:31AM 5 points [-]

I'd say that it's possible to be ruthless and popular even among people who're familiar with you, as long as you keep your ruthlessness in far mode for the people you're attempting to cultivate popularity amongst. Business executives come to mind, and the more cutthroat strains of social maneuverers.

Comment author: BillyOblivion 23 April 2013 01:10:25AM 0 points [-]

Dunno mate, I could name a few US Presidents and non-US leaders.

Comment author: Estarlio 08 April 2013 03:14:46PM 0 points [-]

Mmm, that's a good point.

Potentially - If people know you're going to play according to a higher rule or purpose, rather than following feelings, then how much are they going to trust that you're really going to exercise that rule on their behalf?

It'd be like the old argument that people should be allowed to kidnap people off the streets and take their organs - because when you average it out any individual is more likely to need an organ than be the one kidnapped so it's the better gamble for everyone to make. But we don't really imagine it that way, we all see ourselves being the ones dragged off the street and cut up, or that people with unpopular political opinions would be the ones... You can't trust someone who'd come up with that sort of system not to be playing a different game because they've already shown you can't trust their compassionate feelings to work as bounds on their actions. Maybe any friendship they express means as little to them as the poor guy they just butchered.

I wonder how much of it is a trust problem though, and how you'd resolve that. It seems to me that if you knew someone really well, or they didn't seem to be grasping power, they could get away with being ruthless. People seem almost to gloat about how ruthless specops folks and the like are.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 23 April 2013 12:14:10PM 0 points [-]

My impression is that whistle-blowers tend not to be trusted. It's not as though other businesses line up to hire them.

I think the problem is having moral systems which impose high local costs.