VCavallo comments on Group Rationality Diary, April 5-14 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: RomeoStevens 05 April 2013 09:55:04PM 2 points [-]

which is a lot, don't get me wrong

that everyone feels the need to add this caveat when discussing topics like this, regardless of whether they are actually doing okay, always bothers me a lot. What if you're not okay? To be cliche, why is it not okay for someone to not be okay? To paraphrase Bostrom: many people are walking around quietly leading desperately unhappy lives, and much of the improvements they could make don't get talked about because it is low status to admit you are unhappy.

Comment author: VCavallo 05 April 2013 11:07:09PM 0 points [-]

My reasoning for adding the caveat in this particular instance was to fully disclose my stance. I'm inviting questions, and discussion is only aided when people have a better understanding of each other. If I had said that I am completely miserable and the negatives of being alive once already alive don't outweigh the positives, I'd be of a completely different stance and I'd be understood completely differently.

I don't think it lowers someone's status to say they are not ok and I'm sorry that adding the above caveat bothered you. Clearly my comment was innocent and by more fully explaining my feelings I am I'm no way intentionally reinforcing anyone else's lack of confidence.

Comment author: RomeoStevens 06 April 2013 01:31:03AM 1 point [-]

I don't think it lowers someone's status to say they are not ok

Are you saying you don't personally believe this or that it is a general rule that it does not?

Comment author: VCavallo 06 April 2013 10:56:05PM *  0 points [-]

Sorry - personally.

And it's a shame that as a general rule it does.