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Why do you recommend against going with friends? I've found it's an ideal way to get started.
If I can throw in an additional recommendation - try a few places. Different swing places have different vibes, and you might not find the one you like right away. I think the biggest thing stopping most people is that they have an image of a swing place that they don't care for, and they don't know that there's a wide variety.
Going with friends will get you out there but prevent you (at least somewhat) from meeting and talking with strangers.
Ah, that's a good point. Perhaps just go with friends the first time? The first step is generally the hardest, it's nice to have friends there to guide you. It was how I was introduced to it, and we've helped a few other people the same way.