wedrifid comments on Optimizing for attractiveness - Less Wrong
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As far as I can tell, I'm attracted to girls normally referred to as 'bitch'. That is strong-willed, sexually promiscuous, out-of-the-box thinking, independent girls. Body type seems to be much less of an issue, I've found myself attracted to both very thin and quite chubby girls, from athletic to maternal/feminine, with any combination of hair style, eyes color, etc.
I would say that the primary factor is a very strong personality: any idea on how to attract those kind of girls?
Please consider what sorts of guys the sorts of girls you are attracted to are attracted to.
I truly haven't the slightest idea. I could see them to be attracted both to strong or weak-willed, well-built and chubby, rich or poor men. How could I find out?
Empirical observation.
Raise the topic at Metafilter?
I can imagine strong-willed women as being very definite about what they want, so there might not be a shared type except that they don't want men who try to override them, but this is just a guess.
It's funny because I hadn't thought to simply ask the web :) I definitely will...
I'm also reminded of studies that showed how similarity is more attractive than the opposite, so while I get more data I can postulate that strong-willed girls like strong-willed men.
I'm definitely not the best person to ask, as I have so little interest in attracting them, but (unlike many of the women I mention as being of my taste) I suspect that general PUA tactics would be quite effective here.