army1987 comments on On manipulating others - Less Wrong

-4 Post author: Jonii 16 June 2013 05:44PM

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Comment author: Kawoomba 19 June 2013 10:02:22PM 0 points [-]

Hopefully it's a hypothetical or I'm misreading it, but at a gut level this is pretty sad, and pretty horrible.

Plenty of people would disagree, so do I. What now? Your gut versus my gut? To each his own, I'd say.

(Ever tried the "no false sincerity" approach in a job interview? Never feigned interest in some of what a romantic interest was telling you, even if in fact you couldn't care less?)

Comment author: [deleted] 20 June 2013 04:41:08PM 0 points [-]

Never feigned interest in some of what a romantic interest was telling you, even if in fact you couldn't care less?

Huh, no I haven't -- my romantic interests have tended to tell me things that I was genuinely interested in, or at least to be able to shortly realize when I wasn't and change the topic consequently. Which is probably a large part of the difference between a romantic interest and someone I'd like to have a one-night stand with.

Comment author: Kawoomba 20 June 2013 04:43:24PM 0 points [-]

Not even as a teenager?

Comment author: [deleted] 21 June 2013 06:28:03PM 0 points [-]

Now that I remember about it, I did that until I was about 17 -- towards people of the gender I'm not attracted to; for example, I would force myself to watch soccer matches even though I found them boring as hell.

Then I started hanging around people who didn't give a damn either (mainly females, the kind of people whom Paul Graham here calls freaks, etc.).

Comment author: [deleted] 20 June 2013 04:48:00PM 0 points [-]

Not that I can remember of, but then again I was a helluva dork back then.