There's a severe scale difference here in description. This wasn't just complements but more strong language. Frankly, I'm inclined to think the whole thing did get blown out of proportion, although I suspect that the primary reasons for it had as much to do with the never ending internal politics of SFWA which seems to spend more of its time as a drama factory than anything else, as much as it had to do with feminism. But even given that, it still seemed like your summary downplayed the concerns.
Incidentally, I'm slightly curious if you downvoted my comment and fubarobfusco's comment; both comments were downvoted within a few seconds of your replies. I don't particular care much about karma one way or another, but it probably isn't a great idea to downvote people one is having a discussion with if one is going to have any minimal hope of caring out a productive conversation. Among other issues, it can easily increase cognitive dissonance levels and make it substantially harder to accept an argument from the person one is talking to.
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