sdr comments on "Stupid" questions thread - Less Wrong

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Comment author: RomeoStevens 13 July 2013 04:43:19AM 26 points [-]

It seems to me that, unless one is already a powerful person, the best thing one can do to gain optimization power is building relationships with people more powerful than oneself. To the extant that this easily trumps the vast majority of other failings (epistemic rationality wise) as discussed on LW. So why aren't we discussing how to do better at this regularly? A couple explanations immediately leap to mind:

  1. Not a core competency of the sort of people LW attracts.

  2. Rewards not as immediate as the sort of epiphany porn that some of LW generates.

  3. Ugh fields. Especially in regard to things that are considered manipulative when reasoned about explicitly, even though we all do them all the time anyway.

Comment author: John_Maxwell_IV 13 July 2013 05:29:25AM 14 points [-]

Do you have any experience doing this successfully? I'd assume that powerful people already have lots of folks trying to make friends with them.

Comment author: sdr 14 July 2013 02:58:39AM *  21 points [-]

Specifically for business, I do.

The general angle is asking intelligent, and forward-pointing questions, specifically because deep processing for thoughts (as described in Thinking Fast and Slow) is rare, even within the business community; so demonstrating understanding, and curiosity (both of which are strength of people on LW) is an almost instant-win.

Two of the better guides on how to approach this intelligently are:

The other aspect of this is Speaking the Lingo. The problem with LW is:

1, people developing gravity wells around specific topics , and having a very hard time talking about stuff others are interested in without bringing up pet topics of their own; and

2, the inference distance between the kind of stuff that puts people into powerful position, and the kind of stuff LW develops a gravity well around is, indeed, vast.

The operational hack here is 1, listening, 2, building up the scaffolds on which these people hang their power upon; 3, recognizing whether you have an understanding of how those pieces fit together.

General algorithm for the networking dance:

1, Ask intelligent question, listen intently

2, Notice your brain popping up a question/handle that you have an urge to speak up. Develop a classification algo to notice whether the question was generated by your pet gravity well, or by novel understanding.

3, If the former,SHUT UP. If you really have the urge, mimic back what they've just said to internalize / develop your understanding (and move the conversation along)

Side-effects might include: developing an UGH-field towards browsing lesswrong, incorporating, and getting paid truckloads. YMMV.

Comment author: Jonathan_Graehl 16 July 2013 05:38:38AM 0 points [-]

If you have an "UGH-field towards", do you mean attracted to, or repulsed by browsing LW, making money, etc?

Comment author: gwern 15 April 2014 05:16:21PM 0 points [-]

The 'towards' scopes over browsing LW, not the rest of the itemized list: '1. developing an ugh-fiend (towards browsing LW); 2. incorporating (and building a business with your new spare time); 3. getting paid (truckloads).'

Comment author: Jonathan_Graehl 22 April 2014 09:57:37PM 0 points [-]

Unambiguous mistake or ambiguous parallel construction? I agree w/ your parse, on grounds of the indisputable goodness of truckloads of money.

Comment author: gwern 23 April 2014 05:19:14PM 0 points [-]

I didn't misunderstand it when I read it initially, so I think latter.