pinyaka comments on Useful Questions Repository - Less Wrong

23 Post author: Qiaochu_Yuan 25 July 2013 02:58AM

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Comment author: pinyaka 27 July 2013 07:45:13PM 1 point [-]

How do you respond when the answer is"yes?"

Comment author: [deleted] 29 July 2013 01:52:45PM 2 points [-]

Normally, we just stop whatever it is that we're doing while waiting, and proceed to whatever it was we are going to be doing once we were both ready, because most of the time, we were both ready, we just thought the other person was not ready, and so we were waiting for them to be ready.

That being said, there are exceptions (where one person really isn't ready and is distracted as opposed to waiting), but even in the case of those exceptions, asking the question will generally also kick people out of a distracted mode as well.

Comment author: pinyaka 29 July 2013 06:04:38PM 0 points [-]

Interesting. My fiancee and I get stuck in similar loops, but to use your distinction, she seems to get distracted rather than finding something that can be easily stopped once I'm ready.