Document comments on Rationality Quotes August 2013 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: cody-bryce 02 August 2013 10:29:11PM 24 points [-]

Far too many people are looking for the right person, instead of trying to be the right person.

-Gloria Steinem

Comment author: Document 03 August 2013 02:14:58AM 3 points [-]

Far too few people limit their aspirations to what they can accomplish working alone.

Comment author: cody-bryce 03 August 2013 04:42:23AM 1 point [-]

You still have to be the right person to be the right person in a team....?

Comment author: Document 03 August 2013 05:32:31AM *  2 points [-]

But you don't have to be perfect to be the right person in a team, and you don't have to be "the" right person to be an asset to a team. People with low self-confidence plus low social confidence (plus possibly moralistic ideas about self-reliance) will try to self-improve through their own efforts rather than seeking help, regardless of how much less effective it is, believing they're not worth someone else's attention yet, or being afraid of owing someone, or whatever; quotes like Steinem's reinforce that.

...Maybe. I don't have any actual sources, so I could be totally wrong. Still, I'm not sure I like the focus on "being" rather than doing things.

Comment author: cody-bryce 03 August 2013 04:51:23PM 0 points [-]

But you don't have to be perfect to be the right person in a team, and you don't have to be "the" right person to be an asset to a team.

Who said anything about being perfect?

And if you're an asset, you sound prettymuch like the right person to me.

Maybe. I don't have any actual sources, so I could be totally wrong. Still, I'm not sure I like the focus on "being" rather than doing things.

To me the clause "be the right person" sounds very much active/action-based.

Comment author: linkhyrule5 03 August 2013 03:08:11AM *  0 points [-]

Far too many people...

Completely putting teamwork aside, most major contributions to humanity were achieved by standing on the shoulders of those who came before.