DanArmak comments on Rationality Quotes August 2013 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: cody-bryce 02 August 2013 10:29:11PM 24 points [-]

Far too many people are looking for the right person, instead of trying to be the right person.

-Gloria Steinem

Comment author: DanArmak 03 August 2013 09:34:17AM *  8 points [-]

I read that as "looking for the right person to fall in love with". Then the sense is "be the right person for someone else". But that achieves a different goal entirely, since it doesn't make the other person right for you.

There are many cases where you want a different person right for the task.

Name three!

Romantic partners (inherently), trading and working partners (allowing you to specialize in your comparative advantage), deputies and office-holders (allowing you to deputize), soldiers (allowing you to send someone else to their death to win the war).

Comment author: cody-bryce 03 August 2013 04:44:05PM 2 points [-]

I assume the original intent of the quote was about romantic partners, where it means, "Instead of searching so hard, make sure to prioritize being awesome for its own sake."

I was trying to repurpose it to express that action is better than preparing for something to fall into place more generally, and I think it's appealed to people.

Comment author: dspeyer 04 August 2013 09:12:08PM 3 points [-]

I originally read it as being about politics. We keep thinking that somewhere there's a candidate worth voting for, and then things will be ok, but instead we should be trying to become the worthy candidates, even if only for local office. Or perhaps toward improving the world generally. Instead of deciding whether to pay Yudkowsky or Bostrom to work on existential risk, we should try applying our own talents. Similar to "[T]he phrase 'Someone ought to do something' was not, by itself, a helpful one. People who used it never added the rider 'and that someone is me'."

Skimming Gloria Steinem's biography, I am more confident in this reading.

Comment author: Document 03 August 2013 05:38:30PM 2 points [-]

How isn't "looking for" or "searching hard" action?