A typical situation is that there's a contentious issue, and some anecdotes reach your attention that support one of the competing hypotheses.
It is interesting that you think of this as typical, or at least typical enough to be exclusionary of non-contentious issues. I avoid discussions about politics and possibly other contentious issues, and when I think of people providing anecdotes I usually think of them in support of neutral issues, like the efficacy of understudied nutritional supplements. If someone tells you, "I ate dinner at Joe's Crab Shack and I had intense gastrointestinal distress," I wouldn't think it's necessarily justified to ignore it on the basis that it's anecdotal. If you have 3 more friends who all report the same thing to you, you should rightly become very suspicious of the sanitation at Joe's Crab Shack. I think the fact that you are talking about contentious issues specifically is an important and interesting point of clarification.
David Chapman criticizes "pop Bayesianism" as just common-sense rationality dressed up as intimidating math[1]:
What does Bayes's formula have to teach us about how to do epistemology, beyond obvious things like "never be absolutely certain; update your credences when you see new evidence"?
I list below some of the specific things that I learned from Bayesianism. Some of these are examples of mistakes I'd made that Bayesianism corrected. Others are things that I just hadn't thought about explicitly before encountering Bayesianism, but which now seem important to me.
I'm interested in hearing what other people here would put on their own lists of things Bayesianism taught them. (Different people would make different lists, depending on how they had already thought about epistemology when they first encountered "pop Bayesianism".)
I'm interested especially in those lessons that you think followed more-or-less directly from taking Bayesianism seriously as a normative epistemology (plus maybe the idea of making decisions based on expected utility). The LW memeplex contains many other valuable lessons (e.g., avoid the mind-projection fallacy, be mindful of inferential gaps, the MW interpretation of QM has a lot going for it, decision theory should take into account "logical causation", etc.). However, these seem further afield or more speculative than what I think of as "bare-bones Bayesianism".
So, without further ado, here are some things that Bayesianism taught me.
What items would you put on your list?
ETA: ChrisHallquist's post Bayesianism for Humans lists other "directly applicable corollaries to Bayesianism".
[1] See also Yvain's reaction to David Chapman's criticisms.
[2] ETA: My wording here is potentially misleading. See this comment thread.