Well, a pretty frequent alternative is complaining a lot and looking for sympathy. Another is blaming someone else.
I think if you would ask those people they would also say yes, that they are thinking about ways of solving their problems.
Well, a pretty frequent alternative is complaining a lot and looking for sympathy. Another is blaming someone else.
I think if you would ask those people they would also say yes, that they are thinking about ways of solving their problems.
I do all three! Except I'm falling behind on the "look for ways to solve problems" part, for reasons that usually turn into horrible emotastic essays on livejournal that are statistically indistinguishable from normal whining. So I expect the same reaction that normal whining gets--which is to say, nothing ...
diegocaleiro wrote:
... so we may want to remind and encourage each other to do so, and exchange tips!
See also: Humans are not automatically strategic, levels of action.