LW ought to be looking at you as if you were a strange alien lifeform. What, you're not a university student not yet out in The Economy, or an underachiever whose life was derailed by sci-fi dreams, or working for an "existential risk" or "effective altruism" charity? Tell us more about this strange world of "family and a good job" that you inhabit!
You might consider the possibility that he is unusual not in being a person with a fairly ordinary life, a family, and a good job, but in talking about it here on LW.
(Data point: I have a fairly ordinary life, a family, and a good job. I don't talk about them much on LW; why should I?)
diegocaleiro wrote:
... so we may want to remind and encourage each other to do so, and exchange tips!
See also: Humans are not automatically strategic, levels of action.