I do agree with the part about the quantifiers. This is, at least in theory, one of the reasons that we are supposed to teach the epsilon-delta definition of limit in college calculus courses. I generally try to frame it as a game between the prover and the skeptic, see for instance the description here. One of the main difficulties that students have with the definition is staying clear of whose strategic interest lies in what, for instance, who should be the one picking the epsilon, and who should be the one picking the delta (the misconceptions on the same page highlight common mistakes that students make in this regard).
Incidentally, this closely connects with the idea of steelmanning: in a limit proof or other mathematical proof showing that a definition involving quantifiers is satisfied, one needs to demonstrate that for all the moves of one's opponent, one has a winning strategy to respond to the best move the opponent could possibly make.
The first time I taught epsilon-delta definition in a (non-honors) calculus class at the University of Chicago, even though I did use the game setup, almost nobody understood it. I've had considerably more success in future years, and it seems like students get something like 30-50% of the underlying logic on average (I'm judging based on their performance on hard conceptual multiple choice questions based on the definition).
I've been wondering how useful it is for the typical academically strong high schooler to learn math deeply. Here by "learn deeply" I mean "understanding the concepts and their interrelations" as opposed to learning narrow technical procedures exclusively.
My experience learning math deeply
When I started high school, I wasn't interested in math and I wasn't good at my math coursework. I even got a D in high school geometry, and had to repeat a semester of math.
I subsequently became interested in chemistry, and I thought that I might become a chemist, and so figured that I should learn math better. During my junior year of high school, I supplemented the classes that I was taking by studying calculus on my own, and auditing a course on analytic geometry. I also took physics concurrently.
Through my studies, I started seeing the same concepts over and over again in different contexts, and I became versatile with them, capable of fluently applying them in conjunction with one another. This awakened a new sense of awareness in me, of the type that Bill Thurston described in his essay Mathematics Education:
I understood the physical world, the human world, and myself in a way that I had never before. Reality seemed full of limitless possibilities. Those months were the happiest of my life to date.
More prosaically, my academic performance improved a lot, and I found it much easier to understand technical content (physics, economics, statistics etc.) ever after.
So in my own case, learning math deeply had very high returns.
How generalizable is this?
I have an intuition that many other people would benefit a great deal from learning math deeply, but I know that I'm unusual, and I'm aware of the human tendency to implicitly assume that others are similar to us. So I would like to test my beliefs by soliciting feedback from others.
Some ways in which learning math deeply can help are:
Some arguments against learning math deeply being useful are:
I'd be grateful to anyone who's able to expand on these three considerations, or who offers additional considerations against the utility of learning math deeply. I would also be interested in any anecdotal evidence about benefits (or lack thereof) that readers have received from learning math deeply.