I haven't read Tuxedage's writeups in their entirety, nor am I likely to, so I'm at a loss for how emotional turmoil and psychological warfare could be evidence that the gatekeeper doesn't think there's something more important at stake than winning the game.
That said, I'll take your word for it that in this case they are, and that Tuxedage's transcripts constitute a counterexample to my model.
I'm only speaking of things written in the OP
Losing felt horrible. By attempting to damage Alexei’s psyche, I in turn, opened myself up to being damaged. I went into a state of catharsis for days.
...and such.
That said, I'll take your word for it that in this case they are, and that Tuxedage's transcripts constitute a counterexample to my model.
No, don't do that, I made a mistake.
I guess I just thought that "you should open the box to convince people of the danger of AI" type arguments aren't emotionally salient.
But that was a bad assumpt...
AI Box Experiment Update #3
Tuxedage (AI) vs Alexei (GK) - Gatekeeper Victory
Tuxedage (AI) vs Anonymous (GK) - Gatekeeper Victory
I have won a second game of AI box against a gatekeeper who wished to remain Anonymous.
This puts my AI Box Experiment record at 3 wins and 3 losses.