By “equitable” I'd mean that we each start out with half of the pie; it doesn't stop being equitable if I like crust and dislike filling and you like filling and dislike crust so we mutually agree to trade my share of filling for your share of crust (i.e. this or a quick-and-dirty informal approximation thereof).
Dividing work in a family not about what people like, or about what's equal, it's about what works. You can't build a society on the basis of atomized individuals constantly negotiating out every interaction on an ad-hoc basis; that's just not a stable or realistic foundation. It leads to a culture of divorce and single-parents, generations of unsocialized children and ultimately societal collapse; we've seen the same pattern play out in the black community already.
Start with a strong tradition which works well in the aggregate, make that the standard, then we can talk about shifting the details around in any given family.
What do you mean by “exceptional”, 20% or 0.1%?
Closer to 20% would be my guess; women only lag men by about 5 points overall and a lot of that is the aforementioned spatial reasoning. I'd say something akin to the Asian-White proportions would be a good baseline expectation given that the magnitude of difference is similar, with more women at the top levels due to their wide variance.
Of course, the actual representation in the work force might still come in under our expectations; pregnancy and even menstruation are serious problems for women trying to compete with men, even with modern hormonal birth control which mediates the effects of both, and as studies have shown women tend to be happier as homemakers than breadwinners
Fun fact: 59.4% of the people who graduated at my university in 2012 were female.
On the other hand, the university I went to was a top-tier engineering school with about 20% women and more Asians than Whites by a long shot (and most of us 'whites' were at least a quarter if not fully Jewish). Was my school suffering from unfair "boy's club" discrimination against women or was yours caving to the constant push for "better representation" of women in academia?
That's why I prefer to look at scientific measures like IQ scores and market-based indicators like wages earned than university admissions. Uni is supposed to prepare us for the job market and separate the wheat from the chaff anyhow; the numbers ought to all roughly match up if it's working properly.
Dividing work in a family not about what people like, or about what's equal, it's about what works. You can't build a society on the basis of atomized individuals constantly negotiating out every interaction on an ad-hoc basis; that's just not a stable or realistic foundation. It leads to a culture of divorce and single-parents, generations of unsocialized children and ultimately societal collapse; we've seen the same pattern play out in the black community already.
And yet Northern European societies, which have very low gender inequality, haven't colla...
People want to tell everything instead of telling the best 15 words. They want to learn everything instead of the best 15 words. In this thread, instead post the best 15-words from a book you've read recently (or anything else). It has to stand on its own. It's not a summary, the whole value needs to be contained in those words.
I'll start in the comments below.
(Voted by the Schelling study group as the best exercise of the meeting.)