Because your prior for "I am manipulating this person because it satisfies my values, rather than my pride" should be very low.
If it isn't, then here's 4 words for you:
"Don't value your pride."
"Don't value your pride."
Sorry to keep adding to the "why?" pile but do you mind explaining this one too?
People want to tell everything instead of telling the best 15 words. They want to learn everything instead of the best 15 words. In this thread, instead post the best 15-words from a book you've read recently (or anything else). It has to stand on its own. It's not a summary, the whole value needs to be contained in those words.
I'll start in the comments below.
(Voted by the Schelling study group as the best exercise of the meeting.)