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The anticipated reward for ruminating might be the feeling of closure you'd get from finding a clear, simple solution to whatever problem you're ruminating about. So it's not a separate habit in itself but a misapplication of analytical, 'perfectionist' problem solving to problems with high uncertainty. I think that was it for me. I also had this idea shoved into my head while growing up, that real life is harsh and unpleasant and being an adult is all about facing the harsh unpleasantness. As a result, ruminating felt somewhat virtuous.
I think that fits what I've read about worry.
From Chapter nine of "Resilience–How to Survive and Thrive in Any Situation A Teach Yourself Guide (Teach Yourself: Relationships & Self-Help) by Donald Robertson":