V_V comments on Stranger Than History - Less Wrong

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Comment author: V_V 26 March 2014 12:11:50PM 6 points [-]

The man was permitted, if the boy agreed, to take the boy as his lover until he came of age

It doesn't really look like a marriage relationship, it seems more like the master-disciple pederastic relationships of ancient Greece, although perhaps more formalized.

Comment author: Lumifer 26 March 2014 03:01:18PM *  2 points [-]

It doesn't really look like a marriage relationship

That's the thing, isn't it? Whether it looks like one or not critically depends on your idea of what a "marriage relationship" is.

For example, there are a bunch of people who define marriage as a "union between a man and a woman". Given this definition, of course the idea of gay marriage is nonsense. Given a different definition it may not be, though.

I repeat my suggestion of tabooing "marriage". I suspect that talking about what kind of relationships should society recognize and what kinds of rights and obligations do these relationships give rise to could be more productive. If that's possible, that is.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 27 March 2014 12:29:44AM 3 points [-]

Whether it looks like one or not critically depends on your idea of what a "marriage relationship" is.

For starters, compare it to marriage in the society in question.