MixedNuts comments on 2013 Less Wrong Census/Survey - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Eneasz 22 November 2013 09:19:11PM *  23 points [-]

I'm seconding the request for next year to include a Monogamish option. I'm in a basically monogamous relationship, but we both sometimes sleep with friends.

(also I took the survey)

Comment author: MixedNuts 23 November 2013 10:49:52AM 3 points [-]

Why do you want this to be a separate option, rather than "other"?

Comment author: Eneasz 26 November 2013 04:35:59PM 1 point [-]

Because I think it's one of the three major relationship models. Pure Monogamy is traditional, and Polyamory is the reaction against it, but Monogamish is how a lot of relationships actually work (while operating under the cloak of monogamy). It's like a worldwide religion survey allowing only "Christian" and "Muslim", and lumping Hinduism under "Other". There's another major option here that should be broken out.

Comment author: MixedNuts 01 December 2013 08:08:25PM 0 points [-]

Last year there were 2% "other" answers, versus 13% "polyamorous" and 30% "uncertain/no preference" ones. This suggests there is no need to break down "other" any further, unless people in relationship models like yours pick "uncertain" rather than "other" and would switch if "monogamish" was an option.

Comment author: Eneasz 03 December 2013 09:50:20PM 1 point [-]

Personally I picked "monogamous" because it's the closest to how my relationship actually works. Aside from sex with other people, we are a monogamous couple.

Comment author: Lumifer 03 December 2013 10:08:15PM 5 points [-]

Aside from sex with other people, we are a monogamous couple.

LOL.

Imagine that sentence outside of the LW context :-)