Laoch comments on How to not be a fatalist? Need help from people who care about true beliefs. - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Laoch 09 December 2013 04:21:47PM 0 points [-]

Ya that's for sure. Does that mean I have to think like them to get with them? Am I even capable of that. Sorry for the off topic post.

Comment author: hyporational 09 December 2013 05:06:44PM *  4 points [-]

No and probably not. Don't get me wrong, there are also important similarities between men and women. Social skills are complex, and I recommend you improve them more generally if you really care about becoming better with women. This will get you actual social power, and help with getting a better job. You could also gain allies that can help you with women both directly and by teaching you by example.

Here's a resource on social skills that might help you get started.

Improving your life in other ways will make it more interesting to other people.