shminux comments on Open thread for December 9 - 16, 2013 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Dan_Weinand 10 December 2013 08:26:57PM 8 points [-]

Any good advice on how to become kinder? This can really be classified as two related goals, 1) How can I get more enjoyment out of alleviating others suffering and giving others happiness? 2) How can I reliably do 1 without negative emotions getting in my way (ex. staying calm and making small nudges to persuade people rather than getting angry and trying to change people's worldview rapidly)?

Comment author: shminux 10 December 2013 08:47:17PM 0 points [-]

What is your reason for wanting to?

Comment author: Dan_Weinand 11 December 2013 12:39:31AM 1 point [-]

I find myself happier when I act more kindly to others. In addition, lowering suffering/increasing happiness are pretty close to terminal values for me.

Comment author: shminux 11 December 2013 01:02:05AM 0 points [-]

You say

I find myself happier when I act more kindly to others.

Yet you said earlier that

How can I get more enjoyment out of alleviating others suffering and giving others happiness?

Does this mean that you feel that you do enjoy it but not "enough" in some sense and you want to enjoy it even more?

Comment author: Dan_Weinand 11 December 2013 02:16:27AM *  3 points [-]

Correct, it is enjoyable but I wish to make it more so. Hence why I used "more".