Swimmer963 comments on Doubt, Science, and Magical Creatures - a Child's Perspective - Less Wrong

33 Post author: Benquo 28 December 2013 03:26PM

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Comment author: Swimmer963 29 December 2013 06:02:06AM 6 points [-]

I don't remember ever actually believing in the tooth fairy (or Santa Clause). I also don't remember ever having a problem with the world in which parents told their kids that fictional beings existed and would give them money or presents; it seemed so obvious, and harmless. I was happy to put my tooth under the pillow and get money–it was a soothing ritual. I remember thinking it was freaking obvious that Santa Clause was my parents, but putting out cookies for "Santa Clause" was sort of a fun family ritual anyway.

I wonder what makes the difference between a child who has my outlook, and a child who is disturbed by the fact that either magical beings exist or their parents are lying.

Comment author: ialdabaoth 29 December 2013 06:40:12AM 4 points [-]

I wonder what makes the difference between a child who has my outlook, and a child who is disturbed by the fact that either magical beings exist or their parents are lying.

Trust / security in the child-parent bond.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 29 December 2013 03:01:07PM 5 points [-]

I think trust is in play, but there's also a matter of how literally people take language. Some people are much more literal about language than others, This might be an independent personality factor, or it might be a matter of lack of trust in one's ability to understand body language, tone of voice, etc.

Comment author: Benquo 29 December 2013 05:12:14PM 2 points [-]

Anecdatum: I was pretty literal, and pretty terrible at understanding nonverbal communication.