I don't care if you get frustrated or annoyed at downvotes. That's the WHOLE POINT. As you make comments and continue to be voted up and down you learn the kind of things the community approves and disapproves of, or you get out. Downvoting isn't designed to optimize for being welcoming. It's a moderation strategy designed to improve conversation for the existing participants.
Actually, the more I think about this idea the more I dislike it. It's much easier to learn what is and isn't acceptable behavior if people just tell you rather than you having to suss it out yourself. Further, in many cases the reasoning for downvotes is far from clear, even for established users.
I have >4000 karma, I've written multiple top-level posts, I'm frequently on the top 30-day karma list, I know many community members in real life, and I've donated to and volunteered for both MIRI and CFAR-- and even I am not always sure why some posts get downvoted. Imagine how much worse it must be for new users!
I've often heard people complain that LessWrong isn't welcoming enough, that it's intimidating, that it's hard to participate in discussions here, etc. In some cases, this simply means that LessWrong's level of rigor is too high for the person making the complaint, and that's totally fine. But I also know a lot of intelligent, level-headed people who are interested in rationality and other core LessWrong concepts, but don't post here because they find the site's attitude towards newcomers off-putting.
There are various efforts being put in place to help address this-- for instance, many of Eliezer's original sequences are being compiled into an edited ebook format that should make it much easier for people to access the "core" of LessWrong. But I think that changing either the actual architecture of LessWrong or the culture so that we give more of an explanation for downvotes would be a great help for both existing users and newcomers.
Lastly, it's certainly the case that well-kept gardens die by pacifism, and we should be careful about lowering the standards on LessWrong. I think the current standards on LessWrong are part of what makes the site valuable, and I don't want to lower them-- but making them more transparent would IMO certainly help.
Near the beginning of this year Wei Dai asked why certain people don't post to LessWrong more often, and Yvain replied that:
But Kaj disagreed that this was the actual standard:
This raises two questions: what is the real standard, and what should the standard be?
Because on the one hand, it's not clear Yvain is right, but on the other hand if he is right on the factual question, that standard seems way too high to me. It would suggest that, as John Maxwell says in the same thread, "The overwhelming LW moderation focus seems to be on stifling bad content. There's very little in place to encourage good content."
The wiki sort-of answers the factual question:
But this isn't an entirely unambiguous answer: how many of the five "factors" does a post need to be in Main? Furthermore, it often seems that the "real" rules are significantly different than what the wiki says. Yvain's perception may be incorrect, but I think there were reasons why he (and presumably the people who upvoted his comment) had that perception. Also, Eliezer recently explained that:
This makes me wonder what other poorly-publicized rules there are in this vicinity.
As for what the rules should be, I'm going to limit myself to two general suggestions:
Finally, whatever standard we settle on, I think it's really important that we make it clearer to people what it is. Aside from the obvious benefits of doing that, I've found that trying to navigate the unclear Main/Discussion distinction is itself often enough to make blogging at LessWrong feel like a chore.
Edited to add: In terms of karma I'm currently the top contributor for the past 30 days on LessWrong by a wide margin. I managed this in spite of the fact that I'm in the middle of doing App Academy and have no time (this past week has been an exception because vacation). I take this not as evidence of how awesome I am, but as evidence that way too little quality content is being posted in Main.