falenas108 comments on Group Rationality Diary, January 1-15 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: falenas108 03 January 2014 11:36:13AM 0 points [-]

I did this over 3 years ago, and I still notice the effect today. I look directly in people's eyes much more.

Whether this is a good or bad things is debatable. I have seen that it makes me more noticed in (small) crowd. If a teacher or presenter is saying something, my default is to make eye contact. They usually maintain this for a bit, and from then on tend to speak more at me than others.

I do sometimes have to consciously break eye contact, because very prolonged eye contact does make some people uncomfortable.