I have a self-image of having badly sub-par social skills, and have a fair amount of evidence to back up that image. On the other hand, I note that I currently have 95% positive karma. If I lacked the capability to avoid alienating people, I would expect much more negative karma.
I am unsure whether I need to update my self-model.
I have a self-image of having badly sub-par social skills, and have a fair amount of evidence to back up that image.
Like what? BTW, have you heard of the impostor syndrome?
On the other hand, I note that I currently have 95% positive karma. If I lacked the capability to avoid alienating people, I would expect much more negative karma.
Alienating people may be easier in meatspace than in writing, depending on lots of things.
This is the public group instrumental rationality diary for January 16-31.
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