My view of the US is that we've experienced a rapid uptake in technology alongside serious decline in institutional quality, and these two effects have more or less cancelled each other out, so that the well-being of people in the US is about unchanged over the last 1-2 decades.
I would say that we have had modest technological progress and modest institutional decline. Progress has been overwhelmingly localized in IT/telecom/computers. We've seen small improvements in other areas.
It might seem like this would produce a wash in standard of living, but since we've also seen huge increases in inequality, standard of living for the bottom 75-90% of people is falling.
There's a long article in this week's The Economist:
The onrushing wave
discussing the effect of changing technology upon the amount of employment available in different sectors of the economy.
Sample paragraph from it:
(There's a summary online of their previous book: Race Against The Machine: How the Digital Revolution is Accelerating Innovation, Driving Productivity, and Irreversibly Transforming Employment and the Economy)
What do people think are society's practical options for coping with this change?