Jayson_Virissimo comments on White Lies - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Jayson_Virissimo 11 February 2014 12:39:02AM *  4 points [-]

It seems more like the opposite to me. Telling the truth involves keeping track of what is going on in my head, but lying involves keeping track of what is going on in my head and keeping track of what appears to be going on in my head (and making sure they aren't identical).

Comment author: drethelin 11 February 2014 12:59:27AM 6 points [-]

Saying whatever is in my head is easier than making up lies is easier than picking the phrasing of the truth that doesn't offend or scare people.

Comment author: Jayson_Virissimo 11 February 2014 01:04:19AM 1 point [-]

Ah, okay. That sounds about right.

Comment author: blacktrance 11 February 2014 12:50:01AM 0 points [-]

This has been my experience as well. Telling the truth requires just saying what's on your mind, sometimes adjusting to avoid making people mad or to be better understood. Lying requires a lot of effort and is stressful.

Comment author: ThisSpaceAvailable 17 February 2014 07:09:02AM 0 points [-]

This is often true, but often the opposite is true. If telling the truth requires extensive evaluation of actual facts, but lying just requires figuring out is the best thing to say, then lying can be less stressful.

Comment author: blacktrance 17 February 2014 07:42:20AM 0 points [-]

As used here, "lying" means "intentional deception", so if you say something, believing it to be true, but it's actually false, it's not lying. The contrast is not saying what's true vs saying what's false, but saying what you believe to be true vs saying what you believe to be false.

Comment author: Burgundy 11 February 2014 08:09:00AM 0 points [-]

Depends on cognitive style.