blacktrance comments on Rationality Quotes February 2014 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: [deleted] 20 February 2014 03:35:34PM 1 point [-]

Do you prefer them to be dead? Also, what of their living relatives who come to the graveyard to mourn?

Comment author: blacktrance 20 February 2014 03:41:15PM 2 points [-]

I don't prefer them to be dead, but I'm not making them any more dead by being in a graveyard. As for the living relatives - some may not like it, but that alone doesn't necessarily mean that it's wrong to do so, as they're not actually being harmed, only their sensibilities are being offended.

Comment author: glomerulus 20 February 2014 03:58:18PM 3 points [-]

It's not rude if it's not a social setting. If no one sees you do it, no one's sensibilities are offended.

Comment author: [deleted] 20 February 2014 03:43:09PM 1 point [-]

So we can at least agree that it's extremely rude, but you place less moral value on the rudeness than I do?

Comment author: blacktrance 20 February 2014 03:44:33PM 0 points [-]

I'm not sure that it's "extremely rude". Is it extremely rude for a gay couple to hold hands in a conservative Southern small town, even though that would offend people?

Comment author: TheOtherDave 20 February 2014 04:51:23PM 1 point [-]

For my own part, I would agree that holding hands with my husband in such an environment is rude. (I don't know what "extremely" means here, but I would probably agree with that as well.)

I would also agree that it's worth doing.

Comment author: Vulture 20 February 2014 09:54:35PM -1 points [-]

And arguably has greater social value than having sex in a graveyard.

Comment author: Lumifer 20 February 2014 10:05:13PM *  2 points [-]

greater social value than having sex in a graveyard

I would be greatly interested in the methodology to measure the social value of having sex in a graveyard :-D