adamzerner comments on Is love a good idea? - Less Wrong

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Comment author: [deleted] 22 February 2014 08:47:31PM *  5 points [-]

But there's probably at least tens of thousands of people in the world that can provide me with what you're providing me. So you're replaceable, and if we broke up, I'd get over it after a few days/weeks and find someone else.

For those of us with more peculiar tastes, this isn't actually true.

For example there really aren't that many IQ 145+ reasonably fit/attractive men around my age who happen to be sympathetic to transhumanist values and also click with me personally out there in the world, let alone among those I'm likely to ever meet. I'm in college right now where the concentration of such men is the highest it will ever be in my life and I've met <10 of them, most of whom are disqualified for a relationship for various reasons.

Comment author: adamzerner 22 February 2014 09:45:39PM *  0 points [-]

For those of us with more peculiar tastes, this isn't actually true.

Good point. Personally, I'm the same as you - my tastes are particular enough where I've never even met anyone who I've felt compatible with. But I think that tens of thousands is a reasonable estimate for the general population.

I'm in college right now where the concentration of such men is the highest it will ever be in my life

I don't think that that's true. I'm in college now too (Pitt), and people all seem very average to me. I think that for you, it's more likely to meet people you're looking for by doing things you're interested in (rationality and transhumanist stuff), and you'll probably do more of that stuff once you graduate.

Comment author: [deleted] 22 February 2014 11:22:24PM *  1 point [-]

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