(It's a learnt ability.)

(And like all learnt hard-to-quantify abilities, be sure not to fool yourself about how much of it you have.)

This should be seen as an opportunity, and in no way tedious, though some will give up for it is easier to kiss the lover than become one. The lower regions crawl with these souls, caves of shallow treasures, meeting in places to testify by way of extension, when love is only satisfied by a considerable (incalculable) effort.

–– Vivec