Gah. Now I think I shouldn't have included the background for my question.

FYI, what I wrote in response to some other comment:

it was more of a general statement. AFAIR we were talking about me thinking too much about why other people do what they do (hence - I have too much information about them) and too little about how that affects me. Anyway - my own wording made me wonder more about what I said than what was the topic.

But reading you is still interesting.