palladias comments on Strawman Yourself - Less Wrong

17 Post author: katydee 18 May 2014 05:28AM

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Comment author: palladias 18 May 2014 04:16:40PM *  15 points [-]

Be a little careful about what kinds of arguments come to mind. If I run "look for the most obvious uncharitable insulting argument" on one of my current projects (writing a book), my oh-so-helpful brain immediately returns "It's arrogant for you to write a book. Also you can't finish a project this long. You're going to hit a hurdle and all the work will be for nothing!"

This, despite the fact that I've got a contract, my editor liked the first three chapters I sent, and I'm over halfway to the finish, look to be on track for deadline, and set aside a month of nothing but this at the end.

I'd suggest just being slightly more suspicious of insulting arguments that make claims about your character sucking (immutably) than ones about the way you've laid out the plan.

I do like this comment from "Die Vampire Die" as a countermeasure:

Who do you think you’re kidding?
You look like a fool.
No matter how hard you try, you’ll never be good enough.
Why is it that if some dude walked up to me on the subway platform and said these things, I’d think he was a mentally ill asshole, but if the vampire inside my head says it: It’s the voice of reason.

Comment author: Error 19 May 2014 04:47:25PM 4 points [-]

my oh-so-helpful brain immediately returns "It's arrogant for you to write a book."

Ugh. I get this sort of thing when writing, too, and I hate it. For blog posts it comes out as "the insights you think are revelatory are actually banal and somewhat pathetic, and you're embarrassing yourself by presenting them as heartfelt knowledge. You're trying to signal wisdom (and lying to yourself about that, incidentally), but you're actually signaling a contemptible desperation for validation. Any halfway intelligent reader is going to smell that desperation, like it's roadkill of Pepe le Pew."

For fiction it's more like "the scene you think is tense and gripping is actually made of grade A Narm that you can't see. The one you think is touching is really teenage angsty melodrama." The bit about transparent reaching for validation stays the same, though.

Who do you think you’re kidding?
You look like a fool.

Yeah, that's pretty close to it. Die, vampire, die.

Comment author: FeepingCreature 19 May 2014 05:35:05PM *  3 points [-]

"the insights you think are revelatory are actually banal and somewhat pathetic, and you're embarrassing yourself by presenting them as heartfelt knowledge. "

Let me try to defeat this.

I have learnt something.

That means, I didn't know, and then I put in effort, and now I know.

Previously, I did not know; it is highly unlikely that I am the only person who did not know.

Even though it's obvious in hindsight, I still value having the knowledge; it is highly unlikely that I am the only person to value it.

I spent n minutes acquiring this knowledge; barring better data about others I should expect this time to be about average.

Reading this article will take t minutes where t < n.

Articles get written once and read many times; thus, my investment of effort is a net social good. (The time value is (n - t) * readers - n: time expended - time saved.)

PS: this gives you license to spam your article everywhere. You're committing a social good!

tl;dr: the corollary of "You are not a special snowflake" is "you are not alone".

Comment author: Error 19 May 2014 08:11:41PM 1 point [-]

Let me try to defeat this.

When I run that through my own mind, it spits out an accusation of motivated reasoning. Thanks for the attempt though.

Comment author: Kawoomba 18 May 2014 04:23:43PM 4 points [-]

In fairness, whatever lives inside your head probably knows you better than some dude.

Comment author: shminux 18 May 2014 08:12:20PM 5 points [-]

In fairness, whatever lives inside your head probably knows you better than some dude.

Probably false for an average person.

Comment author: eggman 21 May 2014 03:49:55AM 2 points [-]

I'd suggest just being slightly more suspicious of insulting arguments that make claims about your character sucking (immutably) than ones about the way you've laid out the plan.

It seems katydee may have made a mistake in choice of language here by conflating "yourself" with "your plans". To nitpick, it might better to consistently refer to the thing to be strawmanned as "your plan(s), and not use "you" at all. If one wants to generate an argument to point out flaws in their own plans, strawmanning yourself is like launching an ad hominem attack upon oneself. When somebody is looking to improve only one plan targeted for a (very) specific goal, strawmanning the plan rather than one's own character would seem to illuminate the relevant flaws better.

Of course, if somebody wants to prevent mistakes in a big chunk of their lives, or their general template for plans, strawmanning themselves, then might be the time strawmanning one's own character is more worthwhile.

Comment author: buybuydandavis 18 May 2014 11:49:00PM 2 points [-]

We are much more sadistic to ourselves than we'd ever be with others.

Comment author: katydee 18 May 2014 05:03:23PM 2 points [-]

I agree that "it's arrogant for you to write a book" is probably not helpful, though "you can't finish a project this long" may or may not be helpful depending on whether you generate that thanks to reference class forecasting (even insulting, biased reference class forecasting) or thanks to negative self-image issues.

In general, I do not advocate this (or any other) technique if it causes damage to your self-concept, intrusive thoughts, etc.

Comment author: palladias 18 May 2014 05:55:51PM *  3 points [-]

The problem with "You can't finish a project this long" is that is doesn't come with a reason like "You haven't set aside enough time" or "Planning fallacy!" or "You'll have to trade off against more worthwhile use of your time" which are all useful to address. I'm describing a kind of thought that doesn't feel like troubleshooting but more like anti-self efficacy, where the problem isn't the plan, it's that the plan has you in it.

I like pre-mortems, outside view, etc, so I'm not denigrating the technique, just flagging an error mode.

Comment author: someonewrongonthenet 19 May 2014 05:44:47PM 1 point [-]

Okay, the internal critic is officially is prohibited from ad-hominems.