You have it... Thank you moridinamael.

When you entitled this post "Why did you...?", were you more interested in being validated by someone else's agreement with your own perspective than in finding out the actual answers people would provide to the question?

If so, all I can suggest is: don't believe everything you think.

Tips, meant in the spirit of improvement (I didn't see the original post, but deduce that style and usage improvements would have helped):

10 repetitions is too many (see below concerning 'too')

If Y is 'too' X, that is not great. If it's great, then Y is not too X, but can be very X.

I understand that by 'spectrum' you mean autistic spectrum, but the point of that word is the continuum, which means it's not a quality but a parameter. You don't say 'It's too temperature', but 'It's too hot'. Here, you could say 'My brother and father are way out on the autism spectrum.'

Of course, I don't think that position on the autistic spectrum is really the problem here, so let's not muddy waters.