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Comment author: brazil84 23 June 2014 04:50:06PM 8 points [-]

Does anyone else experience the following problem:

Something reminds you of an event which happened long ago; the event was annoying or created some other negative emotion; and you again feel that annoyance or negative emotion. I get these "annoyance flashbacks" now and then and it seems like they are more frequent now that I calorie restrict.

Any good ideas for dealing with this?

Comment author: James_Miller 24 June 2014 05:12:42PM -1 points [-]

Try having a pleasant mental image you can quickly contemplate as soon as you start to think about the bad event. If the bad event involved someone else doing something bad to you, forgive them.

I have this problem and do intermittent fasting. I never before thought there might be a causal connection.

Comment author: komponisto 24 June 2014 05:44:37PM *  0 points [-]

Try having a pleasant mental image you can quickly contemplate as soon as you start to think about the bad event.

Note that this can backfire, since the pleasant image may become mentally linked to the bad event and thus develop negative associations. (I still think it's worth trying, but choose a pleasant image you can stand to lose.)

If the bad event involved someone else doing something bad to you, forgive them

Easier said than done, of course.

I have this problem and do intermittent fasting. I never before thought there might be a causal connection.

Interestingly, I also have this and similar problems and don't eat very much.

Comment author: brazil84 24 June 2014 05:19:08PM 0 points [-]

Try having a pleasant mental image you can quickly contemplate as soon as you start to think about the bad event

Thanks for the suggestion, I will try it.