shminux comments on Downvote stalkers: Driving members away from the LessWrong community? - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Kaj_Sotala 02 July 2014 04:31:38AM 40 points [-]

It looks like the person who has been downvoting you is the same person mentioned in this thread. Follow-up queries also indicated that the same person had been downvoting several others who had previously complained of downvote stalking.

The said person failed to respond to my first private message on the subject; because there's the chance that they might have just missed it, I finally got around sending them another message yesterday, explicitly mentioning the possibility of a ban unless they provide a very good explanation within a reasonable time. I apologize for taking so long - I procrastinated on this for a while, as I find it quite uncomfortable to initiate conflict with people.

Comment author: shminux 02 July 2014 04:23:08PM *  3 points [-]

No need for a conflict or a ban, just let them know that their user name will be made public.

I find it quite uncomfortable to initiate conflict with people.

Not sure why the parent is upvoted. If you have trouble confronting people, you make a poor admin. Is there another active admin on LW who is more competent?

EDIT: I assumed too much, Kaj was probably not expected to moderate and ended up in this position by default. Sorry.

Comment author: David_Gerard 03 July 2014 09:50:43PM *  4 points [-]

I'm brash, extroverted, outgoing, confrontative, have the subtlety of a head-on collision with a Mack truck and still find this sort of admin duty unpleasant. So this leads me to suspect it's just horrible work.

Comment author: JGWeissman 02 July 2014 04:41:55PM 29 points [-]

If you have trouble confronting people, you make a poor admin.

Can we please act like we actually know stuff about practical instrumental rationality given how human brains work, and not punish people for openly noticing their weaknesses.

You could have more constructively said something like "Thank you for taking on these responsibilities even though it sometimes makes you uncomfortable. I wonder if anyone else who is more comfortable with that would be willing to help out."

Comment author: shminux 02 July 2014 06:14:37PM *  6 points [-]

not punish people for openly noticing their weaknesses.

Thanks! Yes, that's a good point. On the other hand, willingness to confront problem users is one of the absolute minimum requirements for a forum moderator. I suppose Kaj was not expected to do the moderator's job, probably just behind-the-scene maintenance, and I assumed too much. Sorry, Kaj!

That said, a competent active forum moderator is required to deal with this particular issue, and I am yet to see one here.

Comment author: jackk 03 July 2014 12:32:06AM 4 points [-]

Quoting from the other thread about downvote stalking:

I'm messaging you because you're the moderator who commented most recently.

Comment author: Viliam_Bur 02 July 2014 07:22:00PM 6 points [-]

Preferably more than one moderator.

Comment author: Kaj_Sotala 03 July 2014 12:38:41PM *  0 points [-]

No problem. :-)