I'm trying to imagine an evidence that would make me update to that position.

Probably something like a secret video from some super important political or economical international forum, when after the conference the male participants start debating about how frustrating it is that most of them can't find a girlfriend, because women only care about sincerity and emotional closeness, and prefer a man who can spend enough time with them instead of having to travel around the planet to make more money or to change the world.